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WCCM Top 10 Posts of Twenty10

This has been a whirlwind of a year in my life and in the life of our church.
It’s hard to believe that the year is already gone when I honestly can’t remember half of it.  For more on that, and to get a glimpse into the biggest hurdle that gets in the way of my writing, skip on down to number 5.
  1. What to do with a Brett Favre
    This oldie but a goodie from 2009 stays at the top of the list for 2010.  This series continues to top the charts and will probably continue to do so as long as Brett Favre is playing in the National Football League.  Does Brett Favre go to your church?  Is Brett Favre on your ministry team?  You may want to take a look at this series before you give an easy answer to those questions.
  2. The Bus Test
    Initially, the Bus Test started out as a joke between friends. It’s now a question that we ask before every event, large or small, to make sure that no one person is placing the full responsibility of an event on their shoulders.  And, it’s also the most read article on WCCM from 2010.  Feel free to share it with you friends or add your take on the test.
  3. Kids’ Worship: Starting Simple
    This series was featured by Children’s Ministry Magazine in their email newsletters and on their website (childrensministry.com)… so, it makes sense that the posts from that series dominate this year’s list.  And, to be honest, I’m totally okay with that because they’ve created discussion and conversations that reach outside of the average WCCM reader.  Specifically, this post talks about how and why we killed singing on Sunday mornings in an effort to re-teach our kids about worship.
  4. Kids’ Worship: Nothing is Better than Something
    This post walks through the 3 value statements that led me to killing off singing on Sunday mornings in our Elementary Ministry environments: 1) Relationships matter more than programs 2) Singing is not the same as Worship 3) Nothing is better than something.
  5. Top 10 Reasons I Want You on Staff
    Last May, our church’s director of Student Ministry resigned her position.  She left to take on a new role as the chaplain of an amazing private school in Los Angeles less than a month later.  So… for the last half of the year, I’ve been providing oversight for ministry to kids AND students AND their families.  We had nearly 100 applicants for the vacant position, many of whom read this post.  We’ve extended an offer to one of the top Youth Pastors in North America.  You might be wondering why I’m still doing two full time positions going into 2011 (as she reads this, my wife is nodding her head) – well, we’re waiting on Canada.  Immigration is a slow and tricky process… even if you have a job lined up and waiting for you across the border.  So, until they arrive, I’m relearning what it means to run an effective student ministry program and learning to have patience and trust God’s plan for our church.  Good times!
  6. Kids’ Worship: Where We Are
    This post gives a glimpse into where we’re at with kids’ worship at our church and the impact our shift has made on our camp experience as well as the massive VBS that we run in the summer.
  7. Kids’ Worship: The Church of Karaoke
    This was the hardest post in this series to write because I felt like I was stepping all over my volunteer’s toes.  I sent about a dozen drafts back and forth with leaders who were around during this transition to try to lessen the blow.  Even after all of the edits, one thing was clear, I had to keep this in there because THEY felt it too:
    “It was like watching bad karaoke… like when you’re at a karaoke bar and you hear your name called, even though you didn’t put your name on this list. You pretend to try to sing along because you feel like you have to… but everyone knows that you’d rather be anywhere else. On Sundays, our kids would rather be anywhere else while music was playing. And it broke my heart.”
  8. What Matters Now In Children’s Ministry: Free eBook!
    This year, we introduced “What Matters Now in Children’s Ministry!” The best thing about this eBook is that it is completely FREE! You can STILL download the eBook here and distribute it to everyone you know. Use it as a conversation starter in your children’s ministries, your church staff and children’s ministry networks you are a part of.
  9. New Website Launch: Kidmin Conference
    Here’s the cool thing about the upcoming Kidmin conference: Early-in-ministry-me or small-church-me or ministry-assistant-me would have some massive take-aways and “ah-ha” moments. Kidmin will be a choose-your-own-adventure of sorts – there are enough tracks and workshops to choose from that anyone who has a heart for serving kids and families in the Church will have options that apply to their world.
  10. Ideas in a Collaborative Community
    A series from the beginning of the year that, if you’re new to WCCM, you may have missed.  The big idea of this series: ideas, within a collaborative community, are best communicated when we toss the concepts of “good ideas” and “bad ideas” out the window.

What a year!  Was there a post that you remember that wasn’t in the top 10?  Do you have ideas for what topics should be covered in 2011?  Do you know someone in Immigration that can get our Canadian here sooner?!  Post your thoughts and comments below!

 
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Posted by on December 29, 2010 in Kidmin

 

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Pray for my friend, Sandy

** UPDATED **

Sandy is home!

Details here:

http://sandyboulware.blogspot.com/2010/12/my-17-days-of-christmas.html

 

A personal request:

My friend, Sandy Boulware, is battling cancer.  This has been a hard week for her and today is looking to be extremely tough for the family. Her husband, Jon, posted this on his blog this morning…

Triage Unit

Sandy is very sick. (Please do not call the house, her cell, or text her.) (I know everyone means well, but it is adding to the stress and scarring the kids.) I will update everyone as best I can. We spent the entire day at the City of Hope Triage Unit (think ER) and she received another 3 hour hydration infusion, along with pain medication (for cramps) and anti nausea medication. They also ran a bunch of tests. She was released about 5:30 PM and we were home for no more than an hour before the COH called back and wanted me to bring her back in. A urine test completed just prior to us leaving indicated citical levels of glucose and ketones which could result in a diabetic coma or worse. She also had a fevor spike up on her. She is back in the unit and most likely spending the night there. She is scheduled for hydration infusions over the next 3 days here at the house. She is extremely dehydrated and can’t hold anything down. The chemo toxins need to be flushed out of her system. When people tell you that, “what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger” – don’t believe it.

I had been on staff at my current church for just a few weeks when one of my volunteers (and mother of 2 girls in our programs… now in 5th and 9th grades) was diagnosed with cancer.  It’s been a roller coaster of a journey over the last few years.  In that time, Sandy has become one of my favorite people and the Boulware family has been gracious enough to adopt me into their circle of friends.

Having lost my friend Steven** to cancer earlier this year, I selfishly don’t want another family I love to have to walk that same path.  Sandy’s story has been a journey of faith and a tale of a family who refuses to lose hope in following a God who heals.  You can read more of her story and journey here:

http://sandyboulware.blogspot.com/

I know that posts on this page typically deal with kids’ ministry, but today I’m simply asking for prayers.

If you would take a few moments to pass on this request to your network, I would appreciate it.

We need a miracle today – and we have a God who is in the miracle business.

Here’s a picture of Sandy and her amazing family:

(Pictured from left to right: Jon, Michelle, Sandy, Rachel)

Thanks, friends.

-Ap

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** Steven was one of our kidmin volunteers and a close friend of mine.  I wrote about his battle with cancer here: http://westcoastcm.wordpress.com/2010/05/13/my-friend-steven/

 
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Posted by on December 17, 2010 in Uncategorized

 

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New Website Launch: Kidmin Conference

Today is the official launch date of the new Kidmin Conference website.

And… it got me thinking.

I never did the “conference thing” at my previous churches.  I always felt like I was too busy or that our church wasn’t the conference’s target audience.  I would often find my self making excuses… “We’re too small”, “We’re bigger than who they’re thinking of”, “I can hardly afford Goldfish crackers, I can’t afford a conference”, “I can just read the books and blogs and listen to podcasts later”… and the list goes on.

If I could go back and talk to 20 year-old me, I’d drill home the importance of conferences… if they’re the right ones.

I love The Orange Conference because it’s a few thousand like-minded ministry professionals and volunteers with the same end in mind.  But, I’ll be honest, if your church isn’t moving in Orange directions… it might be tough to make this your ONE conference experience for the year.  20-year-old-me was an Elementary ministry assistant at a massive church – it would have been tough for me to begin implementing an Orange strategy from my shoes (not impossible… just tough).

Here’s the cool thing about Kidmin: I can promise you that “early-in-ministry-me” or “small-church-me” or “ministry-assistant-me” or “current-big-church-me” would have some massive take-aways and “ah-ha” moments.  Kidmin will be a choose-your-own-adventure of sorts – there are enough tracks and workshops to choose from that anyone who has a heart for serving kids and families in the Church will have options that apply to their world.

On top of that – Kidmin is built around relationships.  You should care about connecting with other people in ministry.  I’m not going to coach you toward owning that value – you just need to know that it’s something you should value.  With that in mind, Kidmin is doing this REALLY neat things called “Connect Groups” (you can read more about them here: http://www.childrensministry.com/kidmin-conference/relate-relax/connect-groups).

Here’s what the website says about Connect Groups (which, seriously, are one of my favorite things about Kidmin):

Connect Groups
KidMin Conference is a conversation where people from similar ministries can easily maximize ideas, find networking opportunities, and build relationships with others in a casual small group.

How are Connect Groups set up?
Connect Groups are optional small-group style conversations for people in similar ministry situations, led by seasoned ministry leaders who serve as mentors for each group. Connect Groups typically meet at the same location (usually a sack chair pod) at various times throughout the conference. Connect Group locations, meeting times, and discussion topics are clearly posted every day.

Do I have to go to a Connect Group?
Nope. It’s casual and open, just stop by and check out a Connect Group anytime-no one is taking attendance, and everyone is welcome!

All that to say – you need to check out the new Kidmin Conference website (kidmin.childrensministry.com) and consider registering.  If cost is something you worry about – I’ll be posting later this week about how you can get to Kidmin with little cost to you or your church.

 
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Posted by on December 1, 2010 in Kidmin, Resources

 

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