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Top 10 Children’s Ministry Resources: The Other 10

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Over the next week, I’ll be sharing with you resources that have changed my life and the way I minister to kids.

These resources aren’t necessarily best sellers.  They aren’t the books you should put on your shelf to gain respect from visiting Children’s Pastors.  This may be the first time you’ve heard of some of these resources in the context of Children’s Ministry.

If you want the Top 10 list of what everyone else in our field owns, hop on over to Amazon.com and search for Children’s Ministry.

If you want to find resources that will shape your ministry and your life, check back here over the next week.

 
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Posted by on July 31, 2009 in Kidmin, Resources

 

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Group Blogging Project: Too Small To Ignore – Chapter 14 – “Imagine”

The following is a part of a group blogging project I’m a part of at ElementalCM.com

(photo originally uploaded to Flickr by Cocoabiscuit)

For more info on what this group blogging project on the book Too Small To Ignore, read this.

Review of Chapter 14, “Imagine”
by Anthony Prince

Imagine a world where kids matter…

That’s the world Dr. Wess Stafford wants to see ushered in. That’s the world that this chapter (Too Small to Ignore, Chapter 14) wants us to talk about.

So, here we go:

Stafford wants us to let go of the world in which we exist, in order to create a world where every decision is made with us first asking, “What about the children?”

Far too often, books like this live in fantasy. They speak the language of professors and pompous theologians. Books like this never talk about practical application, they simply tell us to do better – then leave us to define and create that “better” world.

This book is not those books.

If you want some real, bold, practical take-aways from Too Small to Ignore, turn to chapter 14. It’s all there.

Stafford wants your church to care about children. He doesn’t think it’s enough to say that we care… he wants us to show that we care. We should live like we care. And he gives examples.

“What if every senior pastor was absent from the pulpit two Sunday mornings a year because he was working in the church nursery? Wouldn’t that send a message to the congregation!”

I know a handful of student ministry and children’s ministry pastors who yearn for their chance to preach during a weekend service… the message it would send to the congregation of your church, if your senior pastor served in your ministry twice a year, would preach louder than your best sermon.

I dare you to try to prove me wrong.

“What if Children’s Day was as big a deal in our churches as Mother’s Day or Father’s day?”

Did you KNOW there was a Children’s day?! The ideas Stafford talks through in his 120+ words dedicated to this holiday get me excited about marking this day on my calendar. I wrestle with celebrating Mother’s Day and Father’s Day in church … so this idea resonates with my soul.

Out of the nearly 30 ways Stafford imagines us changing the world around us, 11 are changes that those of us in church leadership can work toward and actually achieve tangible results.

A sidenote:

Stafford talks about the world AS IT IS for children in war torn and impoverished countries around the world throughout this book. This chapter is no exception. If you’re like me, and the idea of children being harmed makes you ill, you’re going to want to pace yourself through this book – and this chapter… especially the section marked “A World Where Kids Count.”

You still need to read this book.

The world Stafford speaks of CAN exist, all we are missing is the vision and the heart. This book can give you both.

 
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Posted by on July 28, 2009 in Book Review, Kidmin

 

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Sabbath, in 140 Characters or less

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This weekend, our Pastor of Family Life and Evangelism, Adam Donner, will be preaching on the Sabbath.
I have the awesome task of taking his message and parallel teaching the same lesson to a group of 1st-5th graders during our 11:11am service.

As part of my homework, I decided to ask the Twitterverse if they could describe “Sabbath” in 140 characters or less:

Here were a few of your responses (I’ll choose only from the answers that can be found on the public timeline):

So, friends, would you add anything?
What do you think “taking a Sabbath rest” should look like for a 3rd grader?

Share your thoughts in the comments section!

 
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Posted by on July 23, 2009 in Kidmin

 

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Things I should hate more than I do: #12 Sporadic Attendance.

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There’s a funny thing about our church.

We have about twice as many kids who are active in our Sunday programs (attend at least twice a month) than are showing up on a typical Sunday.  In fact, only 5% of our kids attended weekend programs at least 40 times this last year.  To me, that’s a staggering number.

We’re in the process of creating an experience for families on Sunday mornings that they won’t want to miss.  It would be fantastic if, when a family feels like they need to spend more “family time” together, they came to church instead of taking a picnic lunch to the beach.  Going to church should never be a burden on families – we should be equipping them to “do family” better.

I’d like to say that, in a lot of ways, we’re getting there – but we’re not there yet, obviously.

Here’s the kicker: unfortunately, I don’t hate our sporadic attendance… though it’s hard for me to admit.

If, somehow, every actively attending family came on one Sunday, we wouldn’t have room for all of their children.  Putting that in writing makes my heart a little sad.
As a team, we’ll soon be discussing how to creatively shift how we’re using our space in order to have room for these families when they do begin to attend more regularly.  But, for now, we can only fit so many kids into the space we have for them on our campus.

I should hate our sporadic attendance.
Maybe, with a little bit of help, I’ll get there.

Would you like to help our team develop a strategic plan for how to use our space?
Send us a tweet @prince4jc or leave your contact info in the comments section.
We’ll give you some specific information about our current layout and let you think creatively about alternative solutions ot our space issues.
Comments and suggestions will compiled and published in an upcoming post!

 
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Posted by on July 22, 2009 in Kidmin, Los Angeles

 

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Our Son’s First Fishing Trip

Sometimes, it’s good to take a break from work and spend time with your family.
I enjoy the Fridays I get to spend with my son.
He’s pretty adorable.

Are you making sure you’re investing in your family the way you’re investing in your ministry?
If you believe in excellence… your home should reflect that.

 
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Posted by on July 17, 2009 in Los Angeles

 

She Still Calls Me Daddy (book review)

Fathers of daughters have their work cut out for them.
Raising a little girl, with the hope of one day passing her hand off to another man, is a task that doesn’t come with a manual.
Popular Bible teacher, speaker, and author Robert Wolgemuth realized this and decided to share his experience of walking his daughters down the aisle.

With my own daughter just a month away from entering the world, I decided that I should begin preparing myself now for the inevitable…

She Still Calls Me Daddy, written by best-selling author Robert Wolgemuth, offers a fantastic play-by-play for dads who, like me, will one day need tools and veteran insights to gracefully expand our families.

The author understands that not all men LOVE reading.  In light of that, this book reads much more like a friend sharing thoughts over dinner than an instructor teaching at a seminar.  Robert shares stories from his life to explain what he feels helped his family transition from his role of “daddy” to his two little girls to his role of father-in-law after his daughters walked down the aisle.

The book continues to use the analogy of a home renovation when talking about the reshaping of a father’s relationship to his married daughter.  No remodeling project is complete without a checklist of tasks to accomplish… which is why each chapter ends with a checklist summary of the author’s major points.  Humorous and touching stories of family and faith help carry the reader from one point to the next while equipping dads with the tools they’ll need to successfully navigate the transition to a new role in their daughter’s life.

Though this book is probably best for dad’s preparing to walk their daughter down the aisle soon, it is a great resource for dads (or mothers!) of girls of any age.

 
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Posted by on July 15, 2009 in Book Review

 

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The Big Announcement… a year in advance!

How far out do you advertise dates for your large events?

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From Glenkirk Church‘s Website:

This year’s VBS was the largest in our church’s history!

Over 600 children and 300 Jr. and Sr. High leaders spent a week on our campus for a life-changing time of Interactive Bible Stories, Daily Crafts, Mega Fantastic Games, a LIVE Worship Band and Waterslides! This year’s theme was Crocodile Dock, where Fearless Kids Shine God’s Light!
More than 150 children committed their lives to Jesus… a number that far surpassed even our biggest prayers!

For information regarding this year’s VBS Reunion, click HERE!

We are proud to announce that this year’s mission project, “Peanut Butter Jelly Time” brought in more than 1,000 jars of peanut butter and jelly for families served by Glendora’s Shepherd’s Pantry.

For more info email us: kids@glenkirkchurch.org or 626-914-4833 x122.

Do you miss hearing this year’s Superhero song?

Do you want to hear it again so you can practice your Superman pose before VBS next year?

Download it here!

Superhero.mp3 (right click and choose “save as” to download this song)

This live recording is from our closing ceremonies on Friday, July 18, 2008.

Glenkirk’s VBS dates for next year:

July 12-16, 2010

Mark your calendar NOW!

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In our community, people plan their vacations long before they take them.  To give our families an event’s dates a year in advance equips them to invite their friends while the excitement of this year’s event is fresh in their minds.

Is a year too much time between an announcement and the actual event?

Let us know your thoughts in the comments section!

 
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Posted by on July 11, 2009 in Kidmin, Los Angeles

 

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West Coast CM Resource Page

Resources mentioned on this blog will now be posted here:

http://westcoastcm.wordpress.com/west-coast-cm-resources/

Suggestions welcome!

 
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Posted by on July 8, 2009 in Resources

 

You get a band aid, you get a phone call

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We have a simple policy that we drill into the hearts and minds of our leadership team at VBS during their 20+ hours of training:
If a child gets a band aid, their parents get a phone call.

Let me explain…

A large number of the kids attending our summer program have no affiliation with our church.  Only 30% of the kids attending our VBS list our church as their home church… and about a third of them don’t actually attend, they simply write our church’s name in because they go to our VBS.

My goal, for the week of camp, is to make contact with the 70% of families who don’t call Glenkirk their “home” church.
I use band aids to contact about half of these families.

We all know that kids get hurt.  They trip, slip, fall, tumble, crash and spill their way across campus during the 5 days we have them at camp… at one point or another, they’re going to scrape or bruise something!
And that’s where our Ouch Reports come in.
Each of our crews pick up a handful of Ouch Reports at the beginning of each day with the expectation that they’ll be filling them out.  As children get bumped up during the day, our leaders diligently fill out their forms and turn them in at the end of our time together.
After everyone has gone home, I spend the next few hours in my office calling each family to make sure that their little camper is okay.

Parents LOVE this.

Parents want to know that their child is more than a name on our roster… that we actually care about them!
Phone calls home allow me to ask what a child’s favorite part of VBS has been.
I can ask the parents what church they go to.
I even hear the kids yelling my name in the background and screaming out their favorite part of camp.

I love it.
(well, I actually HATE talking on the phone. But, I LOVE that I make the calls.  It’s one of the better things we do, IMHO)

I give calls for more than just band aids.  Kids get splinters.  Preschoolers clip nametags to their tongues.  Parents forget to write down starch allergies.
I look at our followup phone calls as a HUGE ministry to families who may or may not know that our church is a place that cares about their kids.

So, what do you do to make connections with families visiting your campus?
Injuries don’t happen to every kid… so we have to have other nets to catch parents who won’t be getting Ouch Report phone calls.
What nets are you using?

 
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Posted by on July 7, 2009 in Kidmin, Los Angeles

 

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Pictures from Crocodile Dock: Day 1

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Today was a good day.

Tomorrow will be better.
(pictures courtesy of “Doc” Riggs)

 
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Posted by on July 6, 2009 in Kidmin, Los Angeles

 

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